A couple of my friends are trying to teach me to appreciate beer. I’m trying to teach a couple of my friends to appreciate Slayer. It’s the same.
I can’t find “flavor” within the overwhelming bitterness. They can’t hear “music” through screaming and guitars. It’s the same. We can’t find the signal within the noise.
The answer, in both cases, seems to be to subject yourself to enough of the noise that you’re able to tune it out and find what lies beneath.: