Abiding by a specific bedtime to ensure that I get 8 hours of sleep. Nothing is more critical to the way I feel every day. If I’m flying somewhere and know I’ll arrive too late to get my 8 hours, I make it a priority to make up the hours I need on the plane.

Work out as soon as I wake up. I’ve long since learned it has a huge impact all day long on how I feel, even if I don’t initially feel like doing it.

Launching my work day by focusing first on whatever I’ve decided the night before is the most important activity I can do that day. Then taking a break after 90 minutes to refuel. Today — which happens to be a Sunday — this blog was my priority. My break was playing tennis for an hour. During the week it might be just to breathe for five minutes, or get something to eat.

Immediately writing down on a list any idea or task that occurs to me over the course of the day. Once it’s on paper, it means I don’t walk around feeling preoccupied by it — or risk forgetting it.

Asking myself the following question any time I feel triggered by someone or something,: “What’s the story I’m telling myself here and how could I tell a more hopeful and empowering story about this same set of facts?”

Yes. Yes. Yes.

I’ve been doing a lot of thinking lately. About optimization of life. About deciding on goals and pursuing them rather than pursuing 100 random things that might help achieve a goal at some point in the future.

At the end of July I’m going to be making some changes.

I’m also going to be doing a major post on how to spend an average day. I’m quite excited about this project.

You used to have a limited number of reasonably practical choices presented to you, based on what bookstores carried, what your local newspaper reviewed, or what you heard on the radio, or what was taught in college by a particular English department. There was a huge amount of selection that took place above the consumer level. (And here, I don’t mean “consumer” in the crass sense of consumerism, but in the sense of one who devours, as you do a book or a film you love.)

Now, everything gets dropped into our laps, and there are really only two responses if you want to feel like you’re well-read, or well-versed in music, or whatever the case may be: culling and surrender.

 

Culling is the choosing you do for yourself. It’s the sorting of what’s worth your time and what’s not worth your time. It’s saying, “I deem Keeping Up With The Kardashians a poor use of my time, and therefore, I choose not to watch it.” It’s saying, “I read the last Jonathan Franzen book and fell asleep six times, so I’m not going to read this one.”

Culling and surrender. Repeat after me…

If I had an iPad I’d be playing this game. I just haven’t found a good enough reason to buy one yet. Maybe once my house is perfect it can be the ideal ‘sit on couch’ device. But for now I think it’s going to be mobile device / laptop.

This dude is living the Walden way.

Above is an image of our new coffee/water-heating solution: the Zojirushi CV-DSC40 VE Hybrid Water Boiler and Warmer. It’s an alternative to a coffee maker that obviously does this step for you, and also to a traditional teapot. A few friends have one, and I spent some time researching it. I can’t wait for it to arrive.

Now the trinity is complete:

• Bodum Chambord 8 Cup Double Wall Thermal Coffee Maker with New Locking Lid System
• Capresso Infinity Conical Burr Grinder
• Zojirushi CV-DSC40 VE Hybrid Water Boiler and Warmer, Stainless Steel

There will be much good coffee in my future.