Type A personality that avoids unexpected events. Believe it or not, at age 4 she began planning this narration with barbies. We played with Star Wars and G.I Joe. Accommodating for the differences then and now means that male and female motivations are likely not coincident in a single relationship. (For that part, they may not necessarily coincide for single gender partnerships either.)
The unspoken dialogue by the guy, privately responding to each condition, is indescribable.